How can i stop him thinking i want everything

ive been with my partner for 5 years now and baggage we both have it hes the only man ill ever really truly love and still love more and more and the biggedt argument we have is about money he constantly gives to much and im always offering to pay my share hell never exept it and yet when we fall out hell throw it back in my face although now were learning more to share resposibilities and argue about it less but its a pride thing he feels more manly i suppose he had problems with an x too that took him for every penny and to really make him understand that id rather live in a cardboard box with him and cuddle the love my life instead of spend all my days worrying about money or getting rich will take alot of wall breaking i think maybe its a man thing xx eina